The straw that broke the camels back was coming home from a work trip to an apartment that had been ravaged by (another) impromptu party my roommate had thrown.
There were other things: sinks of unwashed dishes that persisted through entire months, loud returns from the bar on weeknights, and the alarming regularity with which my expensive beauty products went missing. It was . I had to figure out a way to get my own apartment!
I live in a somewhat expensive city, so having a roommate was a crutch for meit made my rent cheap enough that I didnt really have to track my finances.
It was going to be painful, but I knew if I made a budget and figured out how to spend less unintentional money, I could afford to rent a one-bedroom by myself. I looked at apartments, figured out a range I should be able to afford with my income, and an extra $250 each month that would be a stand-in for the rent increase.
After a few months of totally floundering in my new system I realized this wasnt a journey I needed to take alone. I to friends and family to see what tools theyve found helpful in getting their financial lives together.
My best friend told me she used her credit card to organize her finances. By putting all her miscellaneous expenses onto one card, she could easily categorize and see where she was overspending.
She was rightbudgeting turned out to be a lot easier (and more fun!) when everything was in place.
I sat down with another friend and we went through a few months of my spending. I was shocked to see how much I spent on little things such as ordering takeout and taking car services.
It added up to an embarrassing totalbut knowing the actual number was powerful. I immediately felt to get it down to a reasonable monthly amount. I calculated the number of treat yourself nights I wanted per month and resolved to save ordering in as a special reward for those nights only.
I went through each category and whittled down my actual spending to a goalwhat a more reasonable amount would be. To my surprise, it became easier to spend less. I wanted to be in of my money, and I could easily track where it was going. It also felt better to spend when I did, because the occasional taxi ride felt instead of an everyday thing.
By the time my lease was up that summer I had enough saved for a deposit and I felt confident enough about my spending that I wasnt fearful about moving into a place of my own where Id be paying more in rent.
Its one of the best decisions Ive ever madenot just because living alone is awesome, but because I feel in control of my financial life now.
Whenever I have a new goal, I feel that I have the tools and discipline to figure out how to go after that, too.
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